Jade, sometime I honestly wonder about your husband....
Anyways, no you can't get a life sentence from downloading music... geeze. But the record companies have been prosecuting people for sharing music. You didn't have to get rid of Kazaa though... just don't keep the music files in your share folder anymore. If the music can't be seen, they don't know you have it... and if they hack you to find out if you have it, then their in trouble...
Anyways, their prosecuting what they call excessive users, which the way I understood it meant people who have 2000 or more music files to share...
And girl, next time your hubby tells you something like that and your wondering, just go to CNN.com and do a search... you'll find the news stories about the piracy issues there... mostly they end up charging the people a small amount of money for each music file they have, which means they settle out of court anyhow... I seriously doubt anyone will get an jail time out of it.