That is exactly what has been recommended to you. It's just that no one has taken you by the hand and told you what to do. That is instrumental in my speculation that you have not changed. That you are still an asshole and that you will end up fucking everyone over when you get the chance to do so. Period.
Then let's forget the whole force-character thing. Perhaps at a later time, when things are a bit different, we can work on a padawan. Right now I think it's best if we just forget the whole thing. Everyone has great points.