Welcome to TRF, and welcome to the discussion.
Don't worry, no one looks down on you because you aren't an offshoot of another board. In fact, I salute you. We have all started boards ourselves, be they galaxies or factions of galaxies and gone through the early board growing pains. Sometimes there is much growing. Sometimes, much pain. Either way, it isn't an easy task, and you're to be commended for soldiering on.
As far as knowing what's going on, I believe that to be part of the problem... most of us do not in fact know what it is going on. So many of our communities have little or no contact with one another. My contact with SWFans is more or less limited to when Charlie comes over here and we argue. I didn't even half of these boards existed.
If it's done nothing else board unity has us talking in a civil and productive fashion, and considering how seperated many of our boards are, that in and of itself is an accomplishment.
OS: In a world of bon-bons, you are a twinkie.
Ahnk: God damn you, I am Count Chocula and you know it.
I'm not spending my anniversary night thumping my head against the wall. - Damalis, on Moderating TRF
Then tell him you want it harder, damnit! - Ahnk, on Damalis